Category Archives: Charis’ Blog

Sara and Lee are two beautiful souls.They had a big glorious commitment ceremony in Sydney four years ago. In their eyes, this was their wedding. However, Sara’s family wanted them to get married for legal reasons. As a result, they embarked on an elaborate plan which involved a going away dinner. Lee has to move overseas for her job and this was a great excuse to get all their family together for a going away dinner. So the plan was made. Hellenic republic was the chosen restaurant and Lee and

It is true that apart from marrying a couple, the confetti is my next favourite element of a wedding. Why you ask? Because it is AWESOME!!When else is it socially acceptable to throw things at your friends? At a wedding of course! It all started with pelting newlyweds with uncooked starchy vegetables. This was meant to shower the couple with prosperity, fertility and good fortune. Oats, grains and dried corn were also used before rice became all time favourite. Back in the 1980’s people were

Of course budget plays a big role in any party. Weddings are expensive, so you need to decide on what elements are important to you and what you are willing to part ways with? Some elements, in my eyes, are a must. Such as: a photographer, celebrant and of course a venue. Once you have sat down and done a budget, then find the essential suppliers and see what kind of room there is left in your budget. If your budget allows, an on the day coordinator will take the stress out of any situation.

It is your wedding and this is a personal choice of the bride and groom. Some people feel as though children at a wedding, means the adults cannot enjoy themselves. As a mother of two children, it is a novelty to have a night out. So I would welcome this decision if I was invited to an adults only wedding. I personally would not be offended at all. If you decide not to have children at your wedding, you must let your guests know their children are not invited, in a polite way. Perhaps, write

It is your wedding and you can have any suppliers you want. There are thousands of photographers, venues, florists, bands, hair and make-up stylists and videographers out there. Decide on the style you are going for, do an Instagram session, find a few suppliers you like and get in touch. I believe that suppliers who know each other and have worked together before create a better wedding day. It is like a well choreographed dance. The photographer will not get in the videographers way and vice

Without a celebrant, your wedding is simply a very expensive party!If you are going to be married in Australia, the most important thing to know about is the Notice of Intended Marriage. This needs to be lodged with your celebrant at least 30 days prior to the wedding and no longer than 18 months in advance of your wedding date. Once you have decided on your wedding date, lock in your celebrant. There are three suppliers that go hand in hand. The venue, the celebrant and your photographer. These

This part of the wedding is very daunting for most couples. Not only are you standing in front of your closest friends and family, but you also have to pour your heart out to the one you love. Here are a few tips from me:1.) Keep it short and simple. You already have the legals wedding vows to include: “I call upon the people here present to witness that I, AB/CD, take you, CD/AB, to be my lawful wedded wife/husband/partner.” After those words are spoken you can choose to say anything. Some

I have been a celebrant now for almost nine years. Though that time, the weather patterns have changed and shifted a lot. Back in my early days as a celebrant, November was the busiest month. It is still a busy month; however, it can be very inconsistent with the weather. The last few years we have had a lot of storms and serious rain in November. This can make it a stressful month to get married in, if you are having an outdoor wedding. December is also very changeable, remember to great hail

Erin and Nicole are an amazing couple. I first met them at the Sandbar Beach Cafe open night. They were lovely, we chatted about love and the fact that Australia needed to get with the times and change the law. The had already booked their commitment ceremony at The Sandbar and Nicole’s cousin was going to lead the commitment ceremony. My parting words were “you ladies are lovely, here is my card in case you need my services in the near future?”Fast forward six months, and I am at the car wash

Your wedding day is one of the most important days of your life. It is a day filled with emotions, laughter and tears. When you choose your celebrant, meet them and get an understanding of their personality. Choose someone who will be there for you, who will calm your nerves, give you a pep talk if need be and simply be there for you.I have been a celebrant for over 9 years and I love my job. I love the emotions and the highs a ceremony can cause. It is so special to be up there with a couple